Like I Knew I Would

This is Gym Week, like, negative 48. Because I ain’t been to the fucking gym since before last Christmas.

And I’ve gained some absurd amount of weight like 50 pounds since then.

And, no, there’s been no pregnancy involved, although my gut gets a lot of suspicious glances on account of the junk food baby gestating in there.

So what happened? I quit going to the fucking gym, that’s what fucking happened. I can tell you all the events that led to my gym cessation and persistence in gym truancy, like how my gym closed, and the place that bought everyone’s membership was inconveniently located and didn’t have the classes I wanted at times I could go. I can tell you how that second place then charged me and wouldn’t refund my money like the crooks gym bosses are known to be, even though I followed the instructions for quitting the gym, and this made me too poor to join another gym that month and also too pissed to go to the new gym that had my money but not my required amenities. I can tell you how I was busy around the holidays, how my long-distance relationship had me going out of town or having company every weekend, and how every time I told myself tomorrow was the day I’d go join the Y or something, I inevitably balked at the cold or my fatigue or some other excuse and never did it.

I could tell you all of that. But that’s all bullshit. I quit going to the gym, because I fucking quit going to the gym. I quit running, too. That’s what happened.

Do I regret it? Sort of.

I mean, I had a good thing going there for a while. I’d gotten past the agony of starting at the gym. I was seeing results. I was feeling good about my body–not only my appearance, but my ability to do shit with my body I’d never thought I’d be able to do. I’d run some 5k races–and I still have the bibs pinned to my wall to prove it. The fact that the race T-shirts don’t fit me anymore tells another story.

When I started this blog last year, I didn’t hide how much I hated working out. I also worked in an escape clause by saying over and over, “I might get sick of this shit soon!” and “I haven’t quit–yet.” That way I could always say I never fully expected I’d stick with it, so it should come as no surprise if I dropped out.

I wasn’t wrong. I did get sick of it. I quit. Like I knew I would.

The intervening months have brought about a different kind of introspection: on body image and self acceptance. Those are confusing to me. When I was younger, the biggest hurdle between me and accepting my body was the chest region. And when I say “biggest hurdle,” that’s actually the opposite of what it was: these tits were tiny, and that’s the one thing I would have changed about my body. The rest of me was skinny, and I never worried for a second about things like how much I weighed or what size I wore. The first time I noticed my clothes starting to get snug, when I was in my early 20s, I stepped on the scale and didn’t really know what to think of the number I saw. I had no idea what I had weighed before and so had no idea if I’d gained any weight.

Now, I’m all too aware of how much I weigh, and of how much I’ve weighed at times since those first inklings it might be more than it should be. Right now, I weigh more than I ever have, even fully pregnant, and I feel baffled to think I might have been disappointed at my weight 20, 30, or 40+ pounds ago.

My boobs are bigger now, so there’s that. It’s only fair. It’s the least nature can do if I’m going to have a belly, right?

Even so, I’m not what I would call “happy” with my body. I’m often conscious of how much more of it there is now, how ill-fitting my clothes are because I’ve outgrown a lot of shit and don’t really know how to dress my current shape in a way that flatters. I don’t even know what to think about the word “flatting,” like what it means in practice, and how much I should care about it.

I did the Mud Run again this year, and it was much, much harder than last year. By the end, I was running as fast as I could, and I was barely keeping up with my friend next to me who was walking. I attempted all the obstacles but was literally unable to finish some of them. I actually had a difficult time mustering the strength to lift my legs at the end of the thing, by which time I had a real appreciation of what good shape I must have been in last year.

Today is the one year anniversary of my quit-smoking date, and in spite of varying degrees of temptation over the last twelve months, I’ve never lit up. That can be a contributing factor in weight gain, they say.

There are three goals I had for myself around the time I started going to the gym: first, start going to the gym. Second, start eating better. Third, quit smoking. It seems like I can’t ever do more than one of those things at once.

At any rate, while I may not be “happy” with my body, I’m not consumed by self-hatred. Sometimes I even like how I look. There’s a certain womanliness I like sometimes.

And truth be told, my dude likes my bod the way it is. I certainly appreciate that, though I also question how much or in what way I should appreciate it. I want to feel the way I feel about my body because it’s the way I feel about my body. I don’t want to hate my body because it’s not as skinny as some man thinks it should be, but I also don’t want to resist making changes I want to make because a man likes how I look now.

Lemme tell you, it’s hard to know, as a woman, exactly what your own thoughts are about your body. Sometimes what makes me feel bad about myself is seeing images of other people and comparing myself to them. Is that a good reason to want to make a change? That doesn’t sound sustainable. There will always be some part of some person’s body that I’ll think is better than the same part of mine.

Sometimes I think about my age and being a mom and having a mom’s body, and I feel like I should just accept that’s where I am. Is that a good reason to find acceptance? That seems like giving up. But giving up what? Would that be giving up something I want for myself or something I think I’m supposed to want for myself?

Sometimes I see cellulite on my thighs or observe my belly, and I’m not sure what I think about those things. Do I hate them? Do I feel neutral? Am I just casually observing? Is noticing body fat the same thing as feeling ashamed of body fat?

I will say this: I felt accomplished when I could observe my body getting stronger, when I noted I could do things I’d never done before or thought I could do before. When I could lift more weight in Body Pump. When I could last through a hard track in RIPPED. When I finished my first 5k and ran the whole thing without stopping to walk.

But it’s very daunting to think about starting it all up again. Those six a.m. classes? Those evenings at the gym when my couch is calling to me? Those aching muscles, those gym showers? I already can’t get all my shit done that I feel like I need to do, like make sure I take the laundry out of the washing machine before it goes sour, or pick up my kids in time to get in piano practice and reading and baths and a nutritious dinner and a little recreation time. Imagining throwing in another element that I don’t really even want to begin with, to the end of achieving goals that I know would make me feel good but are not necessarily a part of my personal values–impossible.

Which is why I never joined a gym before last year.

What to do next? I don’t know. Like with the whole thing last year, this is open ended. Maybe tomorrow I’ll get motivated to start training for an Iron Man or some shit, and this time next year I’ll be winning body building competitions. Or maybe tomorrow I’ll watch TV and take my kids grocery shopping and not smoke any cigarettes and eat some carbs and fat, and this time next year I’ll be no closer to making any changes than I am today.

Until next time.

I got my rock moves

Oh, the gym.

The gym, the gym, the gym.

Gym gymminy, gym gymminy, gym gym gyree…

The fucking gym.

I realize I haven’t posted since last week. When I checked this afternoon to see when I posted last and try to figure out what week this is, I realized this is the end of week seven. Week SEVEN, y’all!

Week seven was pretty good. I worked out Monday through Thursday, each day. It was very mind/body at times. After the Muscle Milk incident last week, in which I let my stupid brain psych me out, I’ve tried to put my mental energy to good use by releasing it into my workout instead of letting it stay trapped in my head.

Oh, everyone in town who plays the lottery decided they had to buy their lottery tickets at exactly the same moment when I was behind them in line at the Tom Thumb? That’s cool. Imma just do some fuckin’ squats right now.

Oh, my efforts to meet deadlines are thwarted at every turn by people who have no interest at all in timeliness? Hm. Guess I’m gonna lunge that shit out.

Oh, my ex-boyfriend decided to unfriend me on Facebook? Ok. Excuse me while I power press the fuck out of this barbell.

Oh, that dude I met a couple weeks ago is engaged, something he failed to mention to me? Alrighty, then. BTW, I’ll just be over here doing some motherfucking bicep curls.

Speaking of bicep curls, those are probably my very least favorite thing right now. I totally wimp out on my weights for those. Hate. Them. But I did enjoy them one day this week when an instructor I hadn’t met before taught Body Pump and had us doing bicep curls to Pink’s “So What.” That is my jam, bitches. Had I the ability to focus on much more than curling my fucking biceps, I might have belted out the lyrics. “So what? I’m still a rock star. And you’re a tool.”

I got me one of those fancypants fitness trackers this week, a Fitbit. It records how many steps I take per day. Not surprisingly, it’s not that many. I haven’t made any special effort to walk more since I got the thing; right now I’m just interested to see how many steps I take in my typical course of existence. My best day was something like 5,100. Fitbit wants you to take 10,000. I work at a desk. You do the math.

I haven’t done RIPPED since I got the Fitbit. I wonder if it will count things like jumping jacks and kicky things as steps. That’ll be interesting to see this week.

I’m feeling some pressure to go ahead, get the fuck on with it, and start phase two of my master plan. The dieting phase. The pressure I feel is all from myself. Phase one was supposed to be getting into a fitness routine that became… well, routine for me. And it has. That’s part of why I haven’t written about it lately; working out has become something I just do. Not as noteworthy as it was. “Yeah, I went to Body Pump. I pumped my fucking body. We’ve been over this before.”

So clearly, phase one has been successful and has gone on for seven solid weeks. And weight loss has been almost nil. I therefore feel the pressure to stop eating so much fucking junk food and start dropping some poundage.

This thought fills me with resentment, just as going to the fucking gym did at the beginning. But it’s different. Maybe it’s about what the sacrifice would be. Going to the fucking gym represents a sacrifice of an hour or more each time I go (counting things like getting set up and then subjecting myself to the piss-poor showers). That’s no small sacrifice, to be sure, especially since I’m so busy doing things like watching American Horror Story on Netflix and playing Pet Rescue Saga on my phone. However, dieting is somehow a bigger sacrifice. It represents a sacrifice every single time I make choices about food. And I loves me my food.

I talked to someone this week about diet, and she mentioned in an offhanded way something about ordering a salad that doesn’t have cheese on it. I nodded with understanding. But wtf is the point of almost ANYTHING without cheese? Especially a salad. I mean, don’t coat the bitch with cheese, but there’s got to be something for your taste buds to look forward to, and it sure as shit isn’t the often-drippy lettuce or the ice-cold grape tomatoes.

I am considering doing some sort of time-limited challenge. Anyone can do something for 10 days or 30 days or 90 days or whatever. Maybe if I start some kind of plan that has a definite end in sight, that will jumpstart me.

This week could be a good opportunity to get things going, because my beloved children, whose meals mostly come out of my freezer or cans and boxes from my pantry, are visiting family out of town all week. Which means I don’t have to worry about cooking shit they won’t eat. Which, in reality, I realize I shouldn’t give a shit if they’ll eat what I cook or not. Who’s the boss around here? Me, bitches. It’s me. Don’t judge my parenting.

But I digress.

I’m not committing. Like a 30-something single guy with daddy issues. You’re not the boss of me.

Week eight should be a good week. Without my progeny to take to daycare in the morning, I should be able to hit as many asscrack of dawn workouts as I want to and cook as much frozen fish and vegetables as I can stomach. And I bought a new accessory this weekend to cart along with me this week. And I have some exciting new dietary supplements to try.

Maybe I’ll write about it. Maybe I won’t.

Gym week seven, days one through four

  • Favorite part: releasing my aggression with punchy, kicky things and picking up heavy shit and putting it back down.
  • Least favorite part: having any fucking aggressions to need to release. Believe it or not, I’m a fucking lover, not a fighter. Bitches.
Fitbit carefully monitors my activity as I smoke and compose this entry.

Fitbit carefully monitors my activity as I smoke and compose this entry.

Guess what? I’m still hot!

This week, Candy and Alyssa both mixed things up in Body Pump and RIPPED and threw in some new tracks to their playlists. Or… maybe they were only new to me? There’s also this thing where Body Pump and RIPPED are actual, branded programs, and they come out with new seasons, and the long-time participants will say things like, “Oh, that’s from Body Pump 79! Love Body Pump 79!” or “Fuck Body Pump 81! That one is dead to me!” (Edited for clarity.)

Candy had us doing bicep curls to “Eye of the Tiger.” Yes, for real. That happened. I pretty much fucking hate bicep curls, so in my mind, I went full-on drama with it. There’s kind of no more dramatic workout song, amirite?

Candy also provided us with a techno version of “Smells Like Teen Spirit.” I wonder if Kurt Cobain ever imagined a classroom full of women pumping their bodies to his hard-earned grunge jam, the grunge replaced with a techno beat. I kind of doubt it. Maybe things like this exist to help him finish his purgatory. You’re welcome, Kurt Cobain. Offer it up.

Alyssa’s newest offering included a song called “I’m Still Hot” by someone named Luciana. This was not at all familiar to me. I don’t know anything about that crazy rock ‘n roll stuff you kids listen to these days.

Alyssa made us shout “I’m still hot” while we did kicky, punchy things. She told us that Betty White sings this song, and if Betty White can sing it, then so can we.

I mean, Betty White is pretty boss. There’s no denying she’s a role model for us all. I Googled her version of “I’m Still Hot” and learned that I should be sure to sign up for life insurance or some shit when I’m old, because it will make me be able to breakdance. I also learned that muscular dudes like cheesecake when they are shirtless.

My kids also loved Betty White’s video. My seven-year-old daughter wanted to know why, in the scene with the shirtless muscle guys and the cheesecake, Betty White has a large snake wrapped around her shoulders. So of course, I responded in the only way one can to that kind of question coming from a seven-year-old: “Well, honey, the snake is generally accepted as a phallic symbol, which also equates sexuality with the fall of Man. The snake’s close contact with the singer’s body is intended to cultivate an image of brazenness while at the same time generating a sexualized impulse toward and projected from the woman. The audience is intended to feel attracted to the scene concocted by this pairing of woman and snake, at a Freudian level, and perhaps in the case of Betty White, an Oedipal level, which some would say is the byproduct of concupiscence.”

Just playin’. I think I told her it’s just funny.

RIPPED on Wednesday was very jumpy, punchy, and kicky. I’m pretty sure I peed myself a little while jumping. There were many, many jumps. Note to self: pelvic floor still has a little ways to go. But I bet Betty White pees herself, too, so I ain’t ashamed.

My punches are starting to look more respectable, I think. My kicks still make me look like a three-legged dog trying to run up a hill duing a mudslide, but whatevs.

Last night for the first time, I went to Kickboxing with Billy. It was decent, but definitely not as intense as the other classes. It was most certainly not a branded program. There were not songs by pop stars, either aged or semi-current. But there was a lot of kicking and punching. I decided I was practicing my kicks and punches for RIPPED.

Side note: fitness instructors seem to like to tell you to “hit him” and “kick him” when you are doing kicky, punchy things. In an effort to avoid thinking too much about exacting violence on anyone I might actually feel inclined to clobber in real life, I often imagine I’m fighting this guy:


He’s the iconic easy-to-beat guy, so I figure I could TKO him even with my crapass punches and kicks.

I gave in and started doing some ab work at kickboxing. I left out the full-on sit ups, but I did some light crunches, some planks, and some other crazy ab shit. I’m scared I’ll eff up my abs on account of my diastasis, but on the other hand, I just want to see results. So… we’ll see what happens.

Billy, incidentally, was pretty funny. He says “uh huh” and “mm hmm” and “I like that one” a lot. And he has really nice arms that got really sweaty. I kind of have a thing for arms.

I purchased some new workout clothes before kickboxing on Thursday because I hadn’t done laundry, and even the shorts I wore on days I don’t think I peed a little were pretty ripe. So back to my beloved Target I went, and I bought a pair of shorts one size smaller than the others I have, and they fit just fine! I bought a top in my usual size, and it’s a little big! And my fat pants for work are feeling pretty loose! What fun!

I also noticed that workout clothes will often have a “hidden pocket” somewhere, often in some weird place like on the back. I don’t really understand the point of this. First of all, why is it hidden? Is pickpocketing a rampant problem in America’s gyms these days? Second, why is the pocket in the back? If you’re supposed to put your keys in there or something, the second you lie down–as you very often do at the gym, lest anyone believe that exercise is all done standing up–you’re going to lie on your keys. That sounds pretty damn uncomfortable.

I have a good idea for where they could put a pocket for your keys: on the side. Like every other article of clothing. Fucking gym clothes. Trying to be so special.

So I got in my four days this week. Maybe I’ll go Saturday; maybe I won’t. Kind of thinking I won’t. But you never know, bitches. You never know.

Gym Week Five, Days Three and Four

  • Least favorite part: having the bladder and pelvic floor of Betty White.
  • Favorite part: this:


How do I do this shit again?

Man, but it’s been a long day. Started it off right with RIPPED this morning–that’s right, bitches, I fucking made it. I made it without remembering to brush my teeth, so my mouth tasted like morning ass, the banana I ate on my drive, Coke Zero with vanilla, and cigarettes. But I made it.

It was a helluva workout this morning. I’ve done much more Body Pump than I have RIPPED, and it had been so long, and it was so damn early in the morning, that I couldn’t remember exactly what RIPPED was like and what equipment I needed. But I copied the others and grabbed some hand weights and a mat (forgot mine–doh!), and Alyssa handed out stretchy bandy things. And it didn’t take long for me to remember, “oh yeah. I’m jogging in place. I’m doing the crouchy football thing. I’m walking my feet together. I remember now.”

Punchy, kicky things are still my weakness. I have a feeling that anyone I tried to punch would probably lose the fight because my moves would slay him with laughter, not physically harm him in any way. But I tried!

I sincerely do not think I have yet been as sweaty after a workout as I was after RIPPED this morning.

Still wearing last night's makeup. That's how I roll.

Still wearing last night’s makeup. That’s how I roll.

So very, very sweaty.

I think my sweat glands have just in these last four weeks realized what they’re capable of. I break a sweat sooner and sweat harder just in the heat–even when I’m not doing anything. People, I grew up in Florida. I lived in New Orleans. I am one with a hot day. Give me blazing summers over snowy winters any time. So of course I’m familiar with being sweaty, but now that my pores are getting so much practice in, they seem to be chomping at the bit for a chance to deluge me with sweat. “Gimme, gimme more!” they seem to cry.

I scored the less-bad shower. I had time before work to go to Publix and buy BOGO potato salad for my office picnic today, plus a toothbrush to take care of that rank breath I was sporting. I felt the burn for the rest of the day–closer to the first-week agony, but still not as bad as all that. And today, for the first time, I saw a wee, tiny, baby little bicep muscle pop up when I flexed.

So it’s a good day.

Using my gym group fitness schedule as a napkin for my picnic cookies. A study in contrast.

Using my gym group fitness schedule as a napkin for my picnic cookies. A study in contrast.


Gym Week Four, Day Four

  • Favorite part: precious little bicep, standing proud on her own.
  • Least favorite: morning breath fit to peel paint.

Malfunctions of the wardrobe and womanly varieties

Fuck the pool noodle. My bar pad hack can’t cut it; the thing just pops off the bar. Alyssa called me out during Body Pump today: “accessory fail!” Busted.

I’ve been told that bar pads are for sissies, anyway. Of course, some very obvious non-sissies use bar pads in my classes, so take that for what it’s worth. That bit of wisdom did come from a Canadian; perhaps our northern neighbors are hardier than we are down in the US of A. They’d have to be since I’m pretty sure Canada is encapsulated in ice 90% of the time. What’s a little barbell in your back meat?

My wardrobe choices failed me a today as well. My top was all, “check out this belly! Check out this back fat!” I bought three tanks in the same size this weekend, and the one I wore Friday fit just fine. This one, not so much. Fucking size discrepancies. Get it together, fashion industry. The shorts were weirdly constructed and bunched at the top, yet pulled around the leg holes. Shoulda stuck with my Turbo Team Dry Core Max Extreme.


Today’s shorts have built-in “support.” I’m not 100% sure what that means. It basically has underpants built in, but am I supposed to wear those underpants in place of my actual underpants? Probably so, because I, like all women, wear unmentionables made of silk and lace that have to be specially laundered in a river of dreams with soap made from unicorn dust by Dutch maidens wearing wooden shoes, so of COURSE I’m not going to wear them to the fucking gym and sully them with crotch sweat.

Just kiddin’.

But srsly, I’m taking a cue from my four-year-old son’s swim trunks which have built-in underpants and assuming that, like the Highlander, there can be only one. I’m not sure why this is a thing, though. It’s plenty comfortable, but undies are very personal. How would I know these would be comfortable? I didn’t know until I took them home and tried them on. It’s not like you typically try on underwear in the store.

Aside from comfort, is the point to minimize or eliminate panty lines? That’s something else I’ve never understood: this fear that someone will see your panty line. Guess what, bitches? I’ve got news for you: I wear panties. Now if you see a line, you don’t have to wonder, “GASP, are those panties?” Yes. They are. I’m more disturbed by an obvious lack of panty lines with clothing that would reveal them if the panties were present. I mean, it ain’t none of my nevermind if you want to freeball it or go with butt floss, but somehow to me the epiphany that someone is wearing panties is less troublesome than the epiphany that she’s not. Maybe that’s just me.

Anyway, if built-in underoos are meant to minimize panty lines, here again, my shorts failed.

Now, if talk of panties wasn’t enough, it’s about to get ultra-womanly up in this shizz. I’ll give you a warning preview: pelvic floor. If those two words squick you out, you may wish to skip the rest of this post.

So my pelvic floor ain’t what it used to be, thanks to the two beloved miracles I gestated in my womb. I don’t pee when I sneeze (not routinely, anyway), but one time my kid got invited to a birthday party at one of those places with all the bounce houses. Adults were invited to bounce in the houses, and not having bounced in many moons, I happily climbed in. Two bounces later, I had to nope right back out, lest that particular inflated castle have to be quarantined for decontamination.

Some say to do kegels for your pelvic floor. Others say do squats instead because kegels will murder your pelvic floor. (Oh, Internet, how your contradictions baffle!) I haven’t made a concerted effort to do either. For one thing, I’ve never been able to do a kegel before in my life. Everyone who hears me say that says, “Oh, it’s just like when you stop the flow of pee!” Yeah, well. You try stopping my flow of pee. See how far you get. For another thing, squats are actual exercise, and remember, I hate exercise. So I haven’t done any squats dedicated to my pelvic floor, either.

However, each of my rendezvous with the fucking gym has involved squats, and something surprising has happened: suddenly, I can kegel. It’s an unfamiliar sensation. “Oh! Oh… did I just kegel? I think I just kegeled. Is kegeled a word? I did a kegel. I think I did a kegel!”

I kind of want to go back to my OB who delivered my oldest child. During my six-weeks-post-birth probing, she encouraged me to do my kegels. I said, “I don’t know how.” She said, “Do one right now.” I said, “I’m trying!” She said, “You’re not doing it.” Ugh, sad trombone. I suck so bad at exercising that I can’t even do a fucking kegel!

Well. Now I can!

Unfortunately, this is not something I can actually show off. Like, photographically. I mean, not unless I want to start charging for membership, amirite?

At least maybe I can get my bounce on at the next bounce house party.

It’s nearly midnight as I post this, which means I’ll have to get up in 5 hours to get to RIPPED. And I want to, because I think I haven’t been to RIPPED in a week. But I sure do want some sleep…

Will she make it? Stay tuned!

Gym Week Four, Day Three

  • Favorite part: secretly practicing kegels. I could be doing them while you’re talking to me; you’d never know!
  • Least favorite part: pantyshorts and other wardrobe and accessory malfunctions.

Accessories, objectification, and plumbing

If there’s one thing I love about new hobbies, it’s new accessories.

When I was into knitting, I had stitch counters and markers, tote bags and needle cases, hooks, books, baskets, and all manner of other paraphernalia. So far with exercise, I’ve invested in some workout outfits and a pair of shoes (plus my membership at the fucking gym). And this weekend, I bought a yoga mat, which I used this morning at early morning Body Pump.

Updated trade tools, including a yoga mat of my very, very own.

Updated trade tools, including a yoga mat of my very, very own. And more weight. MOAR WEIGHT.

I also wanted to buy a bar pad for when I’m holding the bar on “the meaty part of [my] back,” as the instructions go for lungy, squatty things. But I couldn’t find one of those at Target or Wal-Mart, so I made me a bo-bo substitute out of a pool noodle.

I fashioned this shizz on my way out the door this morning.

I fashioned this shizz on my way out the door this morning.

I told you I’m not opposed to enginuity. I’ll probably get the real thing eventually, but for this morning, and for a buck fitty (and, actually, for nothing since I already owned the pool noodle), this purple piece of foam padded the bar and rescued my back meat from too much pressure.

Pre-pump. Enjoying my 44-ounce Coke Zero with a shot of vanilla. Let's just call that my "energy drink."

Pre-pump. Thumbhole jacket, but no thumbs in the holes. That’s how you know I own; I can leave my thumbs out of the holes. You can’t tell me what to do. Also, enjoying my 44-ounce Coke Zero with a shot of vanilla. Let’s just call that my “energy drink.”

Perusing the exercise sections of Target and Wal-Mart, I was impressed with the accessorizing possibilities. Gloves and pedometers and special types of bags for specific types of things and fancypants water bottles, plus a wide array of stuff made out of stretchy rubber. Lots of material to consider adding to my collection in the future. And in the future, maybe I can actually branch out to one of those athletic box stores that have never held any interest for me at all. I bet they’re fucking full of accessories. Accessories galore!

This weekend, I did not go to the fucking gym. This weekend was about getting my hair cut (goodbye, trademark pigtails!), getting a soothing mani/pedi, going shopping, and cleaning the shit out of my apartment. Yes, I finally cleaned. I’m not going to say I’ve been living in total squalor since I started at the gym, but I will say that my tolerance for child-related filth has increased just a tad in the last three weeks. Or is that just the level of tolerance I’ve always had? I don’t know. Shut up. You don’t know me.

I fretted that my body might have reversed all of its endurance and strength gains in the three days I took off. I needn’t have worried. I pumped that shit like a boss. A BOSS.

Then I got stuck once again in the handicapped shower. I think I may pack a wrench into my gym bag. I can’t make anything much worse if I try to tighten down some hoses and linkages and whatever shower head shit. And if I end up breaking the fucker right off the wall and flooding the locker room (completely by accident, of course), at least someone will be forced to fix it.

In related news, RBF gave me a very pleasant goodbye as I departed today. I want to back down from my flippant labeling of her as Resting Bitch Face. I don’t know her. Seeing bitchiness in her limited interactions with me is probably more a reflection on me than it is on her. For now, at least, I don’t have enough empirical evidence to prove otherwise. Besides, this blog isn’t about tearing people down. So RBF will now stand for Really Bitchin’ Fysique. Duh, physique doesn’t start with an F. But hers is truly bitchin’.

And, okay, yes, I realize the new acronym is objectifying. Look. I’m doing the best I can here. I’m going to the fucking gym, not getting a teaching certification for some new-age feel-goodery.

Speaking of objectification, I’m feeling pretty good about my butt today.

Because I do wear stuff that's not made of Duo Dry Protective Core Max Thunder. Like dresses and cardigans and makeup and jewelry.

Because I do wear stuff that’s not made of Duo Dry Protective Core Max Thunder Clap Tornado Wicking Moisture-No-More fabric. Like dresses and cardigans and makeup and jewelry.

Gym Week Four, Day One

  • Favorite Part: realizing this is week FOUR! Four weeks is a month! If that’s not progress, I don’t know what is.
  • Least Favorite Part: spending my shower wondering how many tools I’ll need to fix the plumbing, and not sure I have the butt crack for the job.

Cracking Dawn

Today I woke up late. I usually set two alarms: one on my phone that tells me to get up, and one on a clock radio on the other side of the room (where I can’t reach the snooze bar) that goes off half an hour later, when I really, REALLY have to get up. But I screwed up and failed to set the phone one for the buttcrack of dawn so I could get to the gym for 6 a.m. RIPPED. So the clock radio roused me at 5:30, about the time I should have been leaving.

I could have rolled over and said, “Oh well. Didn’t make it today.” But I did not do that. It didn’t really even occur to me to do that. I just had to hustle to get out the door, and I didn’t have time to get my daily morning Mega Chiller of Coke Zero at the Tom Thumb on my way to the gym. (Shut up. I don’t drink coffee.)

Thumb holes. Sour puss. Obligatory pre-workout cigarette. Shut up. I know.

Thumb holes. Sour puss. Obligatory pre-workout cigarette. Shut up. I know.

That’s dedication, bitches.

So since I failed to set the phone alarm for 5:00, that means I never unset it from its usual 6:00. Which means it went off in my locker while I was in class. Sorry, whoever was in the locker room then!

My attitude was much improved this morning compared to the last early-morning RIPPED. Maybe it was the thumb holes. Maybe it was the leftover glow from Body Pump the night before. Maybe it was that I slept really damn well last night, without my usual cinemascape of weird, detailed dreams. (I have a very active dream life.) At any rate, I tried a lot harder on the punchy, kicky things, and I was much more successful given that I, you know, fucking tried.

Workout was thumb(hole)s up. Shower was thumbs down. I got stuck with the handicap stall, and the shower head is the kind you can remove from the wall. But this shower head is broken, so it won’t stay ON the wall, and it sprays everywhere from the junction between the hose and the head. (Ha.) Plus, I forgot my flip-flops, and not wanting to get some kind of fungus, I showered in my socks. Pretty much the grossest feeling ever.


Benefits of going to the fucking gym at the crack of dawn:

  1. I don’t have to go after work, leaving me plenty of time to… clean my apartment?
  2. I am totally, fully, 100% awake by the time I get to work.
  3. There’s no traffic to have to fight through.
  4. Lots of people at the gym, but not too many people in the class.
  5. If I can’t get my Mega Chiller before the gym, I have time to get it after!
  6. I am much more likely to be on time to work afterwards.
  7. I don’t have to go home sweaty and sticky because I showered before work, and heaven knows I’m not hitting those gym showers if I don’t have someplace to be after.

Bah humbug. That’s enough cheeriness for today.

Gym Week Three, Day Two

  • Favorite part: RIPPing it, bitches. Yeah, I said it.
  • Least favorite: the literally handicapped shower head.